What is independent?

What independent means??

1.Not influenced or controlled by others in matters of opinion, conduct, etc.; thinking or acting for oneself: an independent thinker.

2.Not subject to another's authority or jurisdiction; autonomous; free: an independent businessman.

3.Not influenced by the thought or action of others: independent research.

4.Not dependent; not depending or contingent upon something else for existence, operation, etc.

5.Not relying on another or others for aid or support.

6.Rejecting others' aid or support; refusing to be under obligation to others.

7.Possessing a competency: to be financially independent.

8.Sufficient to support a person without his having to work: an independent income.

9.Executed or originating outside a given unit, agency, business, etc.; external: an independent inquiry.

10.Working for oneself or for a small, privately owned business.

11.Expressive of a spirit of independence; self-confident; unconstrained: a free and independent citizen.

Those points highlighted, Can ladies do that?
What happens when your husband tells you all these?

I seriously thinks that to a certain extent, a female has their weakness still even if she appears strong and independent.
Where is the real her?